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Friday 29 April 2016

Anti-Socialism

Imagine walking into a classroom. All that’s happening is appalling. It is buzzing with some talking about makeup and some about Messi. Somebody is hitting each other and some are hitting on each other. In the shadow of the electricity being conducted by the students, there’s this one person who just sits. Doing something weird/silly/stupid, probably because he is anti – social. And there are again these other people who end up hurting people, because they don’t want to follow the rules of socialism. They think it’s just too cool to be rude. Is it cool to be anti-social? Is it okay to be anti-social?
I have this one friend who tells me he’s very anti-social. Ironically, he doesn’t only tell me, but tells everybody. And I think he’s right. Just to clear it up, there are two kinds of anti-social. One of the kind is the objectionable kind. The one who will not obey the rules of socialism, and be on a separate path. If there is a road on which social people walk, he builds his own one. Being rude, awfully sarcastic, ignorant means that he doesn’t like people. But, is this right? I am sick and tired of telling him it isn’t good. But, you know. Anyway, this anti-socialism has quite a lot of disadvantages. Firstly, this will not allow you to share stuff with others, will not give you the freedom to talk to people. Why won’t it? Because, you hate them. Moreover, this will prevent you from having people to help you out in times of need. Why will people not help you? Because, you be rude to them. Though these bits might not seem essential, they are quite crucial in the long run. If you think being rude and anti-social is cool, boy are you wrong.
After this, there is the second type of anti-social. Who just can’t socialise. Quite solitary. Again, there are two reasons to this happening. One reason might be that the person doesn’t try, and the second being that others don’t try accepting him for being himself. If you don’t pick up the glass to drink water from it, how will you quench your thirst? Make the move, go and talk. Talk to anybody. Might seem difficult, and though I know it’s said easier than done, might as well try it. Considering the second reason ; if they don’t really like you for who you are, don’t change stuff that makes you ‘YOU’. This one guy in the class was ready to do anything for the girl, and he did, and he ended up being laughed at. Why? Not because he got rejected (that was funny later) but because he became different and the difference didn’t suit him. If you don’t like it, it’s okay. Eating beef is not cool, if you don’t like it don’t eat it. Not knowing how to do something is completely okay. There is no need to do it if you don’t like it.

Concluding, this anti-social thing is eating my brain and I get agitated when my friend says he’s anti-social. Dude, you talk to people, telling them about how anti-social you are. Do you want others to point out the irony of it, or are you going to see once for yourself?

2 comments:

  1. Who's is this antisocial friend of yours? Abhay?

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    1. Just what I think about this subject. Taking nobody into particular.

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